RANDOM READING: ALL ABOUT LOVE

Love moves in mysterious ways...
A true great love can bear the pain and the longitude of wanting even if it takes forever. When confused about love, follow your heart. It may not always be right but you will have the memories to make you smile.

If your head tells one thing and your heart tells you another thing, before you decide, you should first think whether you have a better head or heart.

It's okay to kiss a fool or let fool kiss you but never let a kiss fool you.Don't find love; let it find you, that's why it's called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall.

Never be ashamed to show love when you feel it because one day you might realize that it is already afraid to show itself to you.Love is like a butterfly.

The more you chase it, the more it eludes you. But if you just let it fly, it would come to you the least you expect.

On the course of love, people must teach their hearts to be brave enough to hold on when things go wrong, and brave enough to let go when they realized that things are not meant to be after all. Most relationships are like traffic signs: 1 way, 2 way, do not enter, slippery when wet, no U turn, no left turn, but what I like most is to give way.

Words and hearts should be handled with care, for words when spoken and hearts when broken are the hardest things to repair.

The simplest pick up line doesn't have so many words; all I need is 'I' for me to say it, 'Love' for me to share it, and 'You' for me to give it.

Don't shed your tears for someone who hurt you.

Don't long for the person if they left.

Don't feel sorry if you fail when you try your best. Someone out there is far more deserving for your time and love.

If I tell you, 'I love you', you shouldn't wonder why, or how, or since when, or for how long because I wouldn't have a single answer except to tell it to you again.

In the name of love, it doesn't really matter who won or lose, what's important is that you know when to hold and when to let go. It's the presence of the soul that makes you 'live' but it's the presence of 'love' that makes you live.

If your heart gets broken by the time you truly love, don't let go of the love for the person but let go of the person. You'll never know that love might be sweeter in the second time around.

It's hard to find true love because people are too caught up looking for the perfect person. They don't realize that love is not finding the perfect person but being person for someone else.

Love knows no reason, love knows no lie, love defies all reasons, love has no eyes, but love is not blind, they can see but they just don't mind.

We are sometimes afraid to say 'I love you' instead we say 'I miss you' but often misunderstood leaving the ones we love on which you don't realized that it also feels the same feeling like you do.

Love not because the person is the only one but because the person is the one you are willing to give up everything because it's worth fighting for.

It's hard to pretend to love someone that you don't. But it's harder to pretend you don't love someone that you really do.

Once you had loved, you will always love, for what's on your mind may escape, but what's in your hearts will always remain forever.

Love is not how you forget but rather how you forgive. It is not how you listen but how you understand, not by what you say, but what you do and not by what you receive but what you give.

True love is wanting a person to be happy even if you won't be the one that the person will share his/her happiness with.

If you love someone, don't hold back, never hide your feelings, never economize your love and most of all, never take the person for granted because you will never know what you have till it's gone.

Sometimes we think that loving someone can be such a risky thing. How else would you win if you don't take chances? You don't loss by giving, you lose by holding back.

Never try to impress someone to make him/her fall in love with you co'z when you do, you will have to keep the standard for the rest of your life.

Never rush in love, for it never runs out.

Let love be the one to look for you so that when you start to fall, you will always know that your feeling is sure. Yes!!! It drives you crazy, it makes you mad, jealous, sad, it even causes you sleepless nights, breaks your heart. Well, come to think of it, is it healthy to fall in love?

True love is not when the heart beats faster or fastest, but when it beats no more and yet the love is still there.

If you love a person with no reason at all then you are using your heart.

Love is not a word to say when we feel guilty, the right word to say when we like a person...but love really matters when you share thoughts, minds and hearts.

Why do I say goodbye to someone I never had?

Why do tears fall to someone who was never really mine?

Why do I miss someone I was never been with?

Why do I love someone whose love has never been truly mine?

Why?

For Love is a mystery one cannot fathom.

*CONDENSED FROM AN ARTICLE WRITTEN BY AN ANONYMOUS WRITER

TRUE THINGS

When a GIRL is quiet ... millions of things are running in her mind.

When a GIRL is not arguing ... she is thinking deeply.

When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ... she is wondering howlong you will be around.

When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ... she is not at allfine.

When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying.

When a GIRL lays on your chest .. she is wishing for you to be hers forever.

When a GIRL wants to see you everyday... she wants to be pampered.

When a GIRL says ' I love you ' .. she means it.

When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' .... no one in this world can miss you more than that.

Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person ....Find a guy ..

who calls you beautiful instead of hot.

who calls you back when you hang up on him.

who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy...

who kissesyour forehead.

Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.Who holds your hand in front of his friends.

Who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.

Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!!

21 THINGS GIRLS DON'T REALIZE

Men may be flirting around all day, but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.

Men are more emotional than you think, if they loved you at one point, it'll take them a lot longer then you think to let you go, and it hurts every second that they try.

Men go crazy over a girl's smile.

A man who likes you wants to be the only man you talk to.

Giving a man a hanging message like "You know what?..uh...nevermind.." would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking. And he'll assume he did something wrong and he'll obsess about it trying to figure it out.

If a man tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.

A usual act that proves that the man likes you is when he teases you.

MEN LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE THEM!!!Men use words like hot or cute to describe girls. They rarely use beautiful or gorgeous.

If a man uses that, he loves you or likes you a whole heck of a lot.

If a man does something stupid in front of the girl, he will think about it for the next couple days or until the next time he spends time with the girl.

If a man looks unusually calm and laid back, he's probably faking it and he is really thinking about something.

When a man says he is going crazy about the girl, he really is. Men rarely say that .

When a man asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me"If a man starts to talk seriously, listen to him. It doesn't happen that often, so when it does, you know something's up.

When a man looks at you for longer than a second, he's definitely thinking something.

Men really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions and are MAD confusing but somehow are drawn even more to them.

A man would give the world to be able to read a girl's mind for a day.

No man can handle all his problems on his own. He's just too stubborn to admit it.

NOT ALL GUYS ARE RUDE!!! Just because ONE is RUDE doesn't mean he represents ALL of them.WHEN A GUY SACRIFICES HIS SLEEP AND HEALTH JUST TO TALK TO YOU, HE REALLY LIKES YOU AND WANTS TO BE WITH YOU AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE.

Even if you dump a guy months ago and he loved you he probably still does and if he had one wish it would be you to come back into his life

How to Live Life to the Fullest

Life is short, and everyone should live life to the fullest! You only get one chance to live. Make it the best. Each person lives differently....so make the spotlights shine on your life!

Steps.....
1. Make a list of things you want to do before a certain birthday. For example, list thirty things you want to do before you turn thirty. Your list can be made up of places to visit, people to meet or befriend, skills to acquire, or just fun things to do. This way, you have some goals to aim at, and you can keep track of what you have done and what you still want to do.
2. Make a to-do list or a schedule every day! Don't just laze around all day without painting the fence, visiting Aunt Mary Ann, or finally taking that walk to the park. Have fun!
3. Remember "Carpe Diem" or "seize the day." - Live life in the moment. The only thing that is assured in life is this moment and death. So cherish every moment of life and make it worthwhile.
4.Try making life better for the less fortunate people . They could be anyone, an orphan . Some pounds less in your account will not make a significant difference to you but will make an impact on someone's life. These are the deeds that make you happy in reality, knowing that you have made a difference.
5. Be comfortable with yourself. Love and accept yourself, even if others don't. Know who you are. You will naturally become an outgoing person if you can do this. Also, have an internal locus of control (an internal locus of control implies the belief that one is largely in control of the things that happen to her/him), meaning be who you are and stay true no matter the situation. Be strong and continue to grow your entire life.
6. Accept other people, even if they're different. Really different. You don't have to like everyone, just show acceptence and tolerance and you'll be cool with everyone (extremely important in connections later on). Also understand not everyone has your world view, thinks like you, or has the same values. But one thing everyone does want is to be treated kindly. You can't judge anyone else because you don't know what that person has been through and how it's affected them. Not everyone reacts to the same situations the same way. Some have more tolerance than others. Judging anyone is purely to organize your own little world into making a little more sense.
7. Find a purpose or meaning to your life. Whether that be a cause to help the world, religion, or just any kind of worthwhile goal (world domination only if you'll treat the world right).
8.Accept death. Yes, it can be scary. But it's going to happen, one day you will die. Let it echo through you, and you can begin to appreciate life. Trust you will be okay. Trust it or you'll go crazy.Live your life with the motto " If I die now I die happy ." Wouldn't it be nice if supposedly you would die now to know that many people would attend your funeral because you've been a great person ?
9.Stop caring what other people think about you. If you've done the previous step, then this one should e easy. Just apply the faith and trust in the fact that you will die someday, to you, and the fact that you were meant to be yourself no matter what other people say.

Life is not a race, but a journey

Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.It is because we are different that each of us is special.
Do not set your goals by what other people deem important.Only you know what is best for you.Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart.
Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future. By living your life one day at a time, you live all of the days of your life.Do not give up when you still have something to give.Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other.
Do not be afraid to encounter risks.It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find.The quickest way to receive love is to give love.The fastest way to lose love is too hold it too tightly.In addition, the best way to keep love is to give it wings
Do not dismiss your dreams.To be without dreams is to be without hope.To be without hope is to be without purpose.Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been, but also where you are going.
Life is not a race, but a journey to be savored each step of the way.

THE POWER OF POSITIVE ATTITUDE

I am going to ask you to something very weird right now. First of all, I want you to listen to your thoughts. Now tell me, what thoughts fill your head? Would you label them as positive, or negative?
Now let's say you are walking down the street with these thoughts. Do you think anyone who would meet you would be able to tell you what´s on your mind?
The answer to number one is up to you. But, the answer number two can be pretty generic. Although people will not be able to tell you exactly what you think, they will more or less have an idea of how you are feeling.
Here's another question. When you enter a party filled with friends, do they all fall silent as if something terrible had happened? Or does everybody there perk up as if waiting for something exciting to happen?
You know what? The answer to all these depends on your frame of mind.
Thoughts are very powerful. They affect your general attitude. The attitude you carry reflects on your appearance, too – unless, of course, you are a great actor.
And it doesn't end there. Your attitude can also affect people around you.
The type of attitude you carry depends on you. It can be either positive or negative.
Positive thoughts have a filling effect. They are admittedly invigorating. Plus, the people around the person carrying positive thoughts are usually energized by this type of attitude.
Negative thoughts on the other hand have a sapping effect on other people. Aside from making you look gloomy and sad, negative thoughts can turn a festive gathering into a funeral wake.
A positive attitude attracts people, while a negative attitude repels them. People tend to shy away from those who carry a negative attitude.
We can also define attitude as the way of looking at the world. If you choose to focus on the negative things in the world, more or less you have a negative attitude brewing up. However, if you choose to focus on the positive things, you are more likely carry a positive attitude.
You have much to gain from a very positive attitude. For one, studies have shown that a positive attitude promotes better health. Those with this kind of attitude also have more friends. projecting a positive attitude also helps one to handle stress and problems better than those who have a negative attitude.
A positive attitude begins with a healthy self-image. If you will love the way you are and are satisfied, confident, and self-assured, you also make others are around feel the same way.
A negative attitude, on the other hand, has, of course, an opposite effect. So, carrying a negative attitude has a twofold drawback. You feel bad about yourself, and you make others feel the same way.
If you want to have a positive attitude, you have to feature healthy thoughts. This is probably very hard to do nowadays since, all around us, the media feeds us nothing but negative thoughts. A study shows that for every 14 things a parent says to his or her child, only one is positive. This is truly a saddening thought.
If you want a healthier outlook in life, you need to think happy thoughts, and you have to hear positive things as well. So, what can you do? Well, for starters, you could see a funny movie, you could play with children, spend some time telling jokes with friends. All these activities fill you with positive stimuli, which in turn promotes positive attitude.
Although it is impossible to keep ourselves from the negative things around us, you can still carry a positive attitude by focusing on the good things, the positive things in life.
And this positive attitude you now carry can be of benefit to other people. Sometimes when other people feel down, the thing people mostly do is try to give them advice. But sometimes, all they need is somebody to sit by them, and listen to them. If you have a positive attitude you may be able to cheer them up without even having to say anything.
If positive attitude is really great, why do people choose to adopt a negative attitude instead? One who carries a negative attitude may be actually sending a signal for attention. Before you get me wrong, feeling sad, angry, or gloomy is not wrong itself. But dwelling on these thoughts for far too long is not healthy either. There is a time to mourn.
As always, if you are beset by troubles, even in your darkest hour, focus on the good things in life, you will always have hope. Problems become something you can overcome.
You do not have much to lose by adopting a healthy, positive attitude. Studies show that such an attitude actually retards aging, makes you healthier, helps you develop a better stress coping mechanism, and has a very positive effect on all the people you meet every day. So, what's not to like about a positive attitude? Adopt one today.

BE HAPPY

Almost everyone have heard the hit single 'Don't Worry, Be Happy' by Bobby McFerrin. The song has a very catchy way of conveying its message of being happy to everyone. Bobby Mcferiin's simple message surely made a lot of people by telling them not to worry.
Living a happy, resilient and optimistic life is wonderful, and is also good for your health. Being happy actually protects you from the stresses of life. Stress is linked to top causes of death such as heart disease, cancer and stroke.
One of the better things ever said is - 'The only thing in life that will always remain the same is change', and in our life we have the power to make the necessary changes if we want to. Even if we find ourselves in an unbearable situation we can always find solace in the knowledge that it too would change.
Social networks or relationships are essential to happiness. People are different, accept people for who or what they are, avoid clashes, constant arguments, and let go of all kinds of resentments. If arguments seem unavoidable still try and make an effort to understand the situation and you might just get along with well with
Happiness is actually found in everyone, increasing it is a way to make a life more wonderful and also more healthy.
To be happy is relatively easy, just decide to be a happy person. Abraham Lincoln observed that most people for most of the time can choose how happy or stressed, how relaxed or troubled, how bright or dull their outlook to be. The choice is simple really, choose to be happy.
There are several ways by which you can do this. Being grateful is a great attitude. We have so much to be thankful for. Thank the taxi driver for bringing you home safely, thank the cook for a wonderful dinner and thank the guy who cleans your windows. Also thank the mailman for bringing you your mails, thank the policeman for making your place safe and thank God for being alive.
News is stressful. Get less of it. Some people just can't start their day without their daily dose of news. Try and think about it, 99% of the news we hear or read is bad news. Starting the day with bad news does not seem to be a sensible thing to do.
A religious connection is also recommended. Being part of a religious group with its singing, sacraments, chanting, prayers and meditations foster inner peace.
Manage your time. Time is invaluable and too important to waste. Time management can be viewed as a list of rules that involves scheduling, setting goals, planning, creating lists of things to do and prioritizing. These are the core basics of time management that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can give you that extra reserve to make the results you desire.
Laugh and laugh heartily everyday. Heard a good joke? Tell your friends or family about it. As they also say -'Laughter is the best medicine'. Express your feelings, affections, friendship and passion to people around you. They will most likely reciprocate your actions. Try not to keep pent up anger of frustrations, this is bad for your health. Instead find ways of expressing them in a way that will not cause more injury or hurt to anyone. Working hard brings tremendous personal satisfaction. It gives a feeling of being competent in finishing our tasks. Accomplishments are necessary for all of us, they give us a sense of value. Work on things that you feel worthy of your time. Learning is a joyful exercise. Try and learn something new everyday. Learning also makes us expand and broaden our horizons. And could also give us more opportunities in the future.
Run, jog, walk and do other things that your body was made for. Feel alive. Avoid exposure to negative elements like loud noises, toxins and hazardous places.
These are the few simple things you can do everyday to be happy.
And always remember the quote from Abraham Lincoln, he says that, "Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be."
So CHOOSE TO BE HAPPY( TRY ALWAYS TO BE IN SERVICE )................